Jolie's actions speak louder than words

I just read Angelina Jolie's column "My Medical Choice" in today's New York Times.  When I first heard the story this morning I thought: Why? Just because you're at risk to develop cancer doesn't mean you will.  Doctors can't predict the future.  Wouldn't it be better not to know; to do as the poet's say and live life to its fullest?

Then I gave it some more thought.  And I think I understand now, and probably would react the same in her position.   The fear factor that I wouldn't be able to grow old with my partner, or watch my kids grow up would be huge.  If there's a way to eliminate the fear; to spare my loved ones the pain of watching me die then why wouldn't I do it?

Jolie's decision to have the double mastectomy isn't a brave one in the medical sense.  The surgical techniques, and methods are state-of-the art.  It's brave because potentially it redefines beauty.  Here is one of the most beautiful women on the planet, and through her actions has demonstrated she values more than just superficial looks.

A woman's breasts can define her; they're often the first thing people notice, and comment on.  How many of us have watched Hollywood actresses wondering if "they're real?" I admit, I'm guilty of this one.  Jolie instead of keeping quiet has revealed why she has implants. 

The brave part wasn't the surgery but coming forward.  Her actions are speaking louder than her column; defiant, refreshingly honest, and beautiful.  That's the kind of role model I'd choose for my daughter.  Bravo Angelina.