Tuesday, March 25, 2014

No Make-Up Selfies

The social media trend going around started by a British cosmetics company Escentuals last October to promote breast cancer awareness.  Women would sign up and gather sponsors to go without make-up for a certain period of time, take a picture of themselves and post them on social media.

The trend has hit North America; I've seen a lot of my friends' photos without make up.  You're all gorgeous by the way I have nothing against those pictures.  It makes a little more sense to me now. But I still have trouble seeing what the point is, and that's why I haven't done mine yet. 

On one hand, it is a small gesture with a bigger message: The old look good, feel good mentality.  Maybe the thinking is if we look our worst, and feel our worst we might have a small idea of what women with breast cancer go through.  Another message here: Beauty is only skin deep.  There are women who might see these pictures of their friends and family and realize you're beautiful make-up or not.  Your looks don't define who you are.

Even though it's a small gesture with potentially positive messages, I wonder if it trivialises what women with cancer go through.  The fear, and uncertainty after finding out, the brutal treatment protocols, which for some  means losing a breast. Like it or not for women breasts are a big symbol of what it means to be a woman.   The idea that all we have to do is post a picture of ourselves without makeup and somehow that demonstrates empathy with the cause is a little superficial.

There is definitely a selflessness in wanting to bring attention to a cause, and fundraise for a cure.  But, I wonder if we haven't gone from the selfless to the selfish with this one.  I haven't seen one picture of my friends that hasn't been greeted with positive comments, which, is a good thing.

I understand you have to bring attention to a cause no matter what methods.  I just wonder if we haven't gone too far with this one.

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